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John McCall

Separation and divorce present many challenges for men and can be one of the toughest experiences you will ever have. In these situations men can experience intense range of emotions and feelings including:

• Shock, bewilderment and hurt 
• Desperation, ready to drop off the planet 
• Loneliness and sadness 
• Frustrations, powerless and anger  
• Relief that differences are out in the open 
• Dizziness, with thoughts spinning in circles 
• Awareness of some hard choices having to be make 
• Determination to stand ground and battle to the bitter end 

It is normal to feel a wide range of emotions and to varying degrees. Do not be concerned or ashamed to show these, to anyone! They will understand that you are going through a difficult time.

The best news is that many other men have been in the same situation and survived, they have gone on to live happy and fulfilling lives. 

Life will get better. Separation provides the opportunity for ongoing personal growth. Don’t go through it alone, there is help out there, even for Men. Just ask, swallow any reservations or stubborn male pride and start growing.

Separation and Divorce can be particularly difficult: 

• If the separation is sudden or unexpected  
• Relief that differences are out in the open 
• If you didn’t want the separation in the first place 
• If the separation is sudden or unexpected 
• If you are still hanging on hoping it will all go back to how it was 
• If you have reduced or limited time with your children 

You can experience complex range of feeling around the loss of:

The path to recovery is a challenging one but can be rewarding if you work and persist through it. You may find yourself experiencing highs and lows that come with grief and loss. You will revisit memories and feelings you thought you had left behind. The emotional and mental impact may test your strength and you capacity to look after yourself. 

Seperation and loss is something you have to go through, it is personal. We all do it differently, but the experiences are simular. You can find comfort in focusing on activities like sport, hobbies, work or planning strategies for the future. 

“I deal with my extreme fears by psychological counselling and basically getting up every morning, every morning, every morning and riding my bicycle a lot” 

             A.M. 46, separated 6 months 

"I find that after 2 years, I am now enjoying the normal things in life. I appreciate much more that is around me and value relationships, friendships and life a lot more than I did before. I still have challenges and struggles but I now know how to deal with them effectively" 

J.M. 37, separated 2 years 

When you have relationship, family or difficulties everything can seem out of place and is really nerve racking. Learn how to manage it and secure yourself that Relationship you have been after. 

Please check out my development guide, sign up from the Mini Course or drop me a line on twitter - John_McCall1. 

I look forward   to being able to assist you.

Kind Regards,
John McCall 

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At this stage Men's Life and Support is focusing on restoring relationships with your wife or girlfriend. I really encourage your feedback and recommendations as it is the intension to make this valuable and useful information for all men and women wanting to understand or support men during their growth. After all it is always a two way street. 

It is never one persons fault or one person’s need to grow or change, people grow together and if they don't that is when things need to be addressed. 

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I look forward to being able to assist you.

Kind Regards,
John McCall

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