So there’s this girl… We’ve all heard the story! If there’s a lady that you’ve had your eye on, then you probably spend a fair portion of your time thinking about whether she feels the same way about you. The fact is that, even if she is into you, you’re almost definitely going to have to find the courage to make the first move. Statistically, girls prefer guys to put themselves forward – so if you want to be successful with the ladies, you’re going to have to learn to tell when the time is right to make your move. Actually, it’s not that difficult. You just need to learn how to recognise a few signs of physical attraction. Here are some ways of telling whether she’s hot for you – or going to give you the cold shoulder!
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Eye contact
Holding eye contact with someone actually releases chemicals in the brain that promote social bonding and sexual attraction. Don’t stare, but hold someone’s gaze for a second or so and then look away.
Smile
“A smile is the same in any language”, the famous quote goes. Whether it’s a little smirk or a big grin, when someone smiles at you they are acknowledging you as a friend. Smile back!
Physical contact
Girls do this on purpose and guys don’t so much. This means that although she might lightly touch you on the arm or the hand in order to show you she’s into you, as a man you probably won’t notice! Play close attention to any physical contact that occurs. She might be trying to tell you something.
Conversation
If a girl is interested to you, she’ll talk to you. You need to be able to recognise flirting – the most obvious of the signs of physical attraction – which may come in the form of compliments or as teasing. If she wants friendly banter, then banter right back!
Body language
A slight head tilt when she’s talking to you means she has caring feelings towards you. You can actually reverse this and send subconscious messages to her that you are a caring and thoughtful person by slightly tilting your head when you talk to her. Another technique for winning over someone’s subconscious mind is called “leading”, and is based on hypnotic techniques. The idea is to subtly mimic the mannerisms of the person you are talking to – which will make them feel more at ease with you because you seem to be similar to them. You can then make a subtle change in your body language such as crossing your legs (if you’re sitting down) or putting your hand in your pocket. If the other person mimics this without thinking it is a good indication that they respect you.
And there you have it! Five signs of physical attraction. If a girl likes you, she may not be displaying all five – but look out for them individually. You now have the edge you need to recognise when a girl is into you.
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