It seems that, more often than not, if a relationship ends it is ended by the woman. Why women dump men isn’t always a mystery, but it’s often the case that the reasons they give are not the “real” reasons at all! Although it’s probably true that if a relationship ends then it wasn’t meant to be (and it may not be worth chasing after a girl you’re not meant to be with). It always feels better to understand why these things happen. Psychologists call this “closure”, and it allows us to understand what has happened and move on to better things.
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With this in mind, here are just a few of the reasons why women dump men:
If it’s just the wrong fit…
Not all couples are destined to spend the rest of their lives together and, however good it has been in the past, people change. If your girlfriend decided it wasn’t working, then it probably means that you’ve both changed since the start of the relationship and you don’t fit together so well any more. Or maybe you’ve gotten to know each other a little better and realised you don’t have all that much in common. Whatever the reasons may be, one of the most common reasons for break-ups is that one person doesn’t see the relationship working well in the long term.
Lack of respect
Women sometimes leave men if they lose respect for them. It’s good to remember that attraction works in a different way for women than it does for men. While women are attracted to good-looking men, they are also attracted to men who can provide them with long-term security and an idea of what the future might hold. If a women feels that her partner is going nowhere as a person, she will probably also feel that the relationship is also not going to progress.
Insecurity
As far as attracting women goes, seeming like you can provide a good quality of life for them in the future is a good bet. A girl might end a relationship if she feels her partner cannot give her sturdy support when she needs it.
Stress is also a major factor in the ending of relationships. A woman may be very busy – feeling that she would prefer to ease the pressure on her life by removing her relationship from the equation. If this is the case, it is important to respect that everyone has their own priorities in life. If you give the lady space and support, you may find that she comes back to you when the time is right.
In the end, there are an infinite number of reasons why women dump men. Every relationship is different, and if yours ended it probably needs more work or was not destined to be. The important thing to remember is this: It isn’t your fault. Don’t beat yourself up about a relationship ending, because nine times out of ten it’s the girl who wasn’t ready for it to last. And also, remember: there’s always a better girl out there. You’ll meet her one day.
There are always things you go do for yourself when you are put in this situation. Try to work out what went wrong with the relationship and sometimes this can mean looking at what you may have done wrong, after all you cannot change the other person but you can change yourself.
Stop Stressing over reasons and Become and Alpha Male
